Oh yeah I know, you might be going to say “ No, I stopped comparing myself to others”. Still deep down, yes I can feel it “We are comparing”.
I don’t know this is might be not a bad thing at all. If you are still growing stage ( I think everyone will be growing stage all the time), it is healthy to have a benchmark to check out how you are doing among your peers.
Social media, unlimited career & life options (globalism), and our friends & family are putting us on rat race anyway. At least you should aware of what’s going on around you and pick who you want to compare yourself.