Are you amateur or professional what are you doing for a living?
Let’s say you are pro at work. How about other fields? For relationships with others, listening to your coworkers, being a manager, sales rep, etc.
I think the biggest difference between Amateurs vs Professionals is “mindset”. Pros are always thinking where we can iterate and make it better. On the contrary, Amateurs have a mindset “I’m done, I am accomplished”. Pros are building the system. Amateurs are goal-oriented.
Be make sure who is around you? Are they a bunch of “self-claimed pros which are nothing more than amateurs or true professionals?