Anyone who lives in SF Bay Area comes to LA they all say: “L.A. man, it is nicer. Weather, People, Houses but traffic….”
I don’t like comparison anymore. I did compare it back in time like comparing Turkey vs the U.S.A. or Living Tokyo vs Europe. Honestly, it’s tiring. Enjoy as much as you can where do you live or what do you have. If it’s getting too much, try to change it if you can’t go to another spot.