You probably get an email or DM from someone and asking “ Can you give me your formulas? How can I be like you”?
I always say. There is no formula. Let’s say I have a formula, there is no way it can work for another person. Because that is unique for me. All ingredients are part of me. So, stop looking for other’s formula to apply yourself. I have better solutions for you:
Models
Yes, models are works for everyone. You need to have a good role model. That role model will play you as a light on your journey. More like a teacher or guide. Not a magic formula.
The good thing about models. You can have multiple role models at the same time. Or, based on your life experience or level, you can say goodbye your current role model and have new ones.
Don’t spend your time to find The Alchemist’s secret formula. Find a good role model. If it is not working for you change with the new one.