Everyone almost I met during my NYC trip either used to live in SF Bay Area or somehow they are thinking to try it at some point in their life. That’s why whatever we talked about anything; we ended up comparison NYC vs SF.
All I know is they are both great places. At least none of them are dying spots or nothing interesting going on. They are individually beautiful as it is. At least for me, you are both winning no matter where do you live out of these two cities.