So many unknowns! So many questions!

When?With who?
Why? How?

Some of them hard to be answered, some of them never be.

Deeper we discover our unknowns, more we find about ourselves

I am a big fan of behavioral economics and human psychology. I love reading studies about this topic also explore to find how I can be better every day.

I just discovered Dan Ariely today. Digging his books and research. Before I do, I always search my new people on YouTube. I found amazing TED Talk(16 minutes)-he shared his research about how to change your behavior for the better. Please enjoy !

Believe it! Then Become It!

Emotions are our super powers. Don’t edit your dreams. Our belief are transformative.

It is a lesson for everyone every time. You should look for it! Our past can tell so much to us. Also, history of others too. There is a pearl of wisdom at every stage of our life. There is no linear graph of success, failure, or steadiness. It is full of unknowns. That’s why our every moment can be useful to learn new things. It’s all about how we see them.

Your job is improve yourself every day!
Be curious, be resilient.

This is your job. You can’t delegate to others.
Life is challenging for everyone. It doesn’t matter where you live or what you have still everyone has own problems. No one really thinks as much as like you do yourself.

Be better friend, husband, wife or mom! Deliver your results. Do your Job!

You are the center of your universe. You think you are important to others as much as to yourself, but in reality, it is not. We are not that important at all.

We are just passing the time, our own time.

For how long? We don’t control

With who? We really can’t sure them

What can we do then?

Enjoy your presence in your circle.

It’s so hard for me to entitle myself to a single lifestyle or ideology. We are all exposed to new kinds of ideas every day in this modern world. Probably this is the most outrageous time of human history. We don’t need to travel to know what’s going on in another part of the planet. We can search on Youtube to watch whoever has been there or check Instagram location pins to figure out their daily routines.

So, how can we say, “ I’m this, or I only like or be with them” So much going on. And we so little time in this life. It will be so stupid to outsource our opinions. We don’t know so many things. The fixed mindset is so dangerous. We should be realized “being wrong” is great because we learn/discover something we don’t know.

I talk in my sleep when I’m tired. Also others days too without knowing the results. I used to scream during my sleep I’m glad I don’t do anymore at least no one says so.

I also talk while I’m talking with myself. Talking is great. I think somehow your body, the mind can’t deal with those thoughts and need to talk back.

Less commitments, less people. Simplicity is the solution for our all anxiety.

Delegate your works and let others grow! Be patient with their growth process. Don’t bother them. Also not let them ping you all the time.

Relax as much as you can! You started a longgggg game. Yes, one days are longer than others some of them short as a eye blink. Still, your time, your decisions. Get some time off, relax and come back stronger than ever. Because we have a very long game to play.